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Suggestions

Posted on | December 27, 2006 | 3 Comments

A friend of mine just heard about this list from her boyfriend, and passed it on to me. Basic common sense things, nicely compiled.
Number one reminds me of a quote I heard from George Burns. A reporter apparently asked him the secret to a long marriage and Burns replied, “Marry Gracie” Awww.
21 Suggestions For Success by H. Jackson Brown, Jr.



  1. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery.
  2. Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent.
  3. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
  4. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
  5. Be forgiving of yourself and others.
  6. Be generous.
  7. Have a grateful heart.
  8. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
  9. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
  10. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.
  11. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
  12. Commit yourself to quality.
  13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on relationships with people you love and respect.
  14. Be loyal.
  15. Be honest.
  16. Be a self-starter.
  17. Be decisive even if it means you’ll sometimes be wrong.
  18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
  19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.
  20. Take good care of those you love.
  21. Don’t do anything that wouldn’t make your Mom proud.



Comments

3 Responses to “Suggestions”

  1. Woods
    December 27th, 2006 @ 9:31 pm

    I love the list – Thank you, Vox.
    Why didn’t God write these 21 on tablets rather than the “Thou Shalt Not” versions? Granted Moses would have had a bit more to carry down the mount but I think we’d all be a bit more enlightend / focused.
    STILL working on “Remember the Sabbath day, and keep it holy…”.

  2. Debi
    December 27th, 2006 @ 9:46 pm

    He just told me that there is a #22: Let Debi win so she feels better about herself….

  3. Debi
    December 28th, 2006 @ 12:06 am

    BTW, I’m not sure we can class him as my “boyfriend” just yet.