If any of my readers live in Chandler, Saturday would be a good time for a car wash A small gesture that might provide a small amount of comfort to the family, just in knowing that people care.
UPDATE: New story link
No, I didn't actually know Ashley. I knew of her, and some of my family knew her pretty well. I think this is probably quite hard for them.
From the first Ballet Etudes performance I saw, Ashley was a standout. I didn't know her name at the time and she wasn't a soloist, at least not by the conventional definition. She was in the featured groups - one of the sugar plums, one of the Chinese dancers, one of the wicked step-sisters. She had such a bright, dynamic presence you couldn't help focusing on her - this tiny girl who filled the stage.
I remember after one show, seeing her backstage and commenting to my brother how much I enjoyed watching her performance. His response was, "Ashley? Yeah, she is pretty special" So, then I knew her name and I agreed that she was special. I looked forward to seeing her almost as much as I looked forward to seeing my girls.
Through the years I watched her get ever more special and difficult roles, the last two years dancing the part of the Snow Queen in the Nutcracker. She seemed to grow ever more special as well - one of those teenagers who makes you see the possibilities open to her, not the problems adolescence can bring. There are many great kids in the Ballet Etudes family and any of them would be a horrible loss - I just was particularly touched by her bright, warm smile and talent.
Consider also how her friends must feel. Faced with such a tragedy, there is often an overwhelming feeling of helplessness. In this car wash her friends get to come together and do something. Show they care, give to this family. In the old tradition that had our mothers delivering casseroles to a grieving family, these youngsters are giving of their time in an effort to ease the Mitchell's grief.
Posted by Vox at March 19, 2004 01:39 PM | peopleOh my. What a sad story.
Posted by: ladygoat at March 20, 2004 11:20 AM